You didn't see those smilies. 
But now he's upset and I'm being unusually sympathetic and things are fine, I'm much calmer. So, yeah. 
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by KovusTrueMate » April 24th, 2010, 5:34 pm
I e-mailed him about it and the whole thing just came out. One of them asked the other out and one said yes, but it only lasted 10 minutes. (Thank Mohatu!) You didn't see those smilies. But now he's upset and I'm being unusually sympathetic and things are fine, I'm much calmer. So, yeah.
You didn't see those smilies. But now he's upset and I'm being unusually sympathetic and things are fine, I'm much calmer. So, yeah. 
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by Azdgari » April 24th, 2010, 6:06 pm
Oh... OK... =P
I guess I misinterpreted that, and I want to apologize if it seemed like I was jumping on you or attacking you at all.
But really, my sentiment is still the same. It's a hug. It's a friendly thing. If you're not comfortable with him hugging someone, how will you honestly ever be comfortable with him? Things like this are a relationship killer. Boys will have non-romantic relationships with girls. I have hung out with, hugged, and even spent the night with girls who are not and will never be anything but my friends. How would you feel if he got angry every time you hugged a boy or hung out with boys? Not so good, I would assume. Part of a relationship (and i realize this isn't a relationship but it's a potential one) is trusting one another, and if you can't trust your partner to be able to hug another girl and not be attracted to them, then you're in trouble.
I guess I misinterpreted that, and I want to apologize if it seemed like I was jumping on you or attacking you at all.
But really, my sentiment is still the same. It's a hug. It's a friendly thing. If you're not comfortable with him hugging someone, how will you honestly ever be comfortable with him? Things like this are a relationship killer. Boys will have non-romantic relationships with girls. I have hung out with, hugged, and even spent the night with girls who are not and will never be anything but my friends. How would you feel if he got angry every time you hugged a boy or hung out with boys? Not so good, I would assume. Part of a relationship (and i realize this isn't a relationship but it's a potential one) is trusting one another, and if you can't trust your partner to be able to hug another girl and not be attracted to them, then you're in trouble.
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by KovusTrueMate » April 24th, 2010, 6:19 pm
Okay... Let me try this again. I can interpret the different kinds of hugs. The friendly hug. And... the other one. The friendly hug: One arm and doesn't last for more than 3 seconds. The... other one: Both arms and lasts for more than 3 seconds. It was the... other one. 
But everything has been explained and I'm gradually getting back into the state of Hakuna Matata. 
But everything has been explained and I'm gradually getting back into the state of Hakuna Matata. "It's the scars that make you stronger
It's the hard times that make you wise
It's the sweet things only time brings
That arrive like a blessing in disguise"
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by Azdgari » April 24th, 2010, 6:33 pm
I guess I violently break those hugs rules, then. =P
I'm glad you're feeling better, though. That's what matters. =]
I'm glad you're feeling better, though. That's what matters. =]
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by SimbasMate » April 24th, 2010, 6:35 pm
And why do you even bother with him..?
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by SnowyCheetah » April 24th, 2010, 6:37 pm
SimbasMate wrote:And why do you even bother with him..?
because she likes him lol.
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by SimbasMate » April 24th, 2010, 6:39 pm
SnowyCheetah wrote:SimbasMate wrote:And why do you even bother with him..?
because she likes him lol.
Well if he's going to be a. @*((#(*$&! I wouldn't bother with him but that's jsut my advice anyway.
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by KovusTrueMate » April 24th, 2010, 6:45 pm
But I love him anyway. 
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by thanigraphics » April 25th, 2010, 12:00 am
KovusTrueMate wrote:I e-mailed him about it and the whole thing just came out. One of them asked the other out and one said yes, but it only lasted 10 minutes. (Thank Mohatu!)
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Re: No... It Can't Be...
by RayCat » April 25th, 2010, 1:57 pm
Woahhh, I always thought Gabe WAS your boyfriend 0.o either way, you don't really need to go bonkers about him hugging another girl: As Azdgari said, it's just a nice sign of showing friendship. Me and my friend Azure hug all the time, and although she is a bi, it wouldn't mean that we love each other in that way ^^ why not ask the guy out anyway?
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