hey, a Dutchie! me too

oh, this discussion comes up every year, now it has already popped up on Facebook and other online discussions in july (the festivities take place begin december, lol) the controversy has started since there are two groups:
the groups that still believe all cultures can mix together.
the realistic view that cultures and believes that come with the different cultures mean that people don't understand each other, and there the discussion begins.
the real issue is that the government is making the polarity between the cultural groups bigger, by beeing judgemental towards one group, and giving the credits to the other group. the people take this on each other, and there you have the base of the problem.
well, I can understand this is a bit abstract, so i take myself as an example:
I had a maroccan co worker, and we had a nice time working together. no troubles, good atmosphere. but I am female, he is male. In his culture, males are higher in rank than females, he explained. I told him that in my culture, genders are equal and have the same right, and asked him to respect that.
two weeks later the first incident happened. he tried something with me i didnt want. since I knew about his culture, and how they deal with misschief, I grabbed a piece of wood and smacked him in the face. trouble started, since I SUDDENLY WAS THE AGRESSOR in my bosses view, where HE ACTUALLY tried to grab me somewhere you dont grab a woman. result: big annoying discussions. I left there.
now last january I lost my home. I went to social work to find urgence, for a place to live. asylum seekers, refugees, they get this urgence. I didn't. I had to fence for myself. I have a boyfriend now, he took me in. The other choice was to sleep under a bridge.
now that is where the polarity starts. since I am definitely not the only one dealing with these situations. since it is not fair, i found myself growing hatred towards the other cultural groups, since they are treaten better than our cultural group.
oh, and black pete should stay, he is fun.
missing the old deviantart...