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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby Regulus » September 29th, 2013, 12:45 am

FlipMode wrote:
Si Targaryen wrote:Why do my female friends all seem cursed to end up with idiots?


What's worse is that the guys who are NOT idiots are the ones who end up alone. It's spectacular how bad people are at finding the right person for them. My theory is that any idiot can ask a girl out which is why so many of them end up getting girlfriends, but is also why so many relationships fail. Everyone is so desperate to be with someone, we end up choosing people who are not the right person for us.

Thus, statistically, guys like me and many others who actually want a girlfriend who we actually do care about and is the right person for us not just "the girlfriend"... Are much less likely to find one. It takes brains to ask the right person but when you do, they're taken because some dude who just wanted a girlfriend has already taken them.


This. So much this.

Or, we could just be delusional. This may be what we want to think because these sorts of beliefs justify the situation that we find ourselves in, as guys who aren't idiots. I honestly don't know which, lol.

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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby FlipMode » September 29th, 2013, 12:53 am

This. So much this.

Or, we could just be delusional. This may be what we want to think because these sorts of beliefs justify the situation that we find ourselves in, as guys who aren't idiots. I honestly don't know which, lol.


The great thing is, it works either way. Nearly all beliefs throughout the World are based on justifying ourselves anyway =D
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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby Regulus » September 29th, 2013, 12:55 am

Good point. xD

Like just about anything, there probably is a bit of truth to both perspectives. I'd say it's a bit of both, in all reality.
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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby Si-Amber » September 29th, 2013, 6:45 am

FlipMode wrote:
Si Targaryen wrote:Why do my female friends all seem cursed to end up with idiots?


What's worse is that the guys who are NOT idiots are the ones who end up alone. It's spectacular how bad people are at finding the right person for them. My theory is that any idiot can ask a girl out which is why so many of them end up getting girlfriends, but is also why so many relationships fail. Everyone is so desperate to be with someone, we end up choosing people who are not the right person for us.

Thus, statistically, guys like me and many others who actually want a girlfriend who we actually do care about and is the right person for us not just "the girlfriend"... Are much less likely to find one. It takes brains to ask the right person but when you do, they're taken because some dude who just wanted a girlfriend has already taken them.


This. I wasn't that nice when I finished with my last girlfriend (I've long since apologized and been forgiven, we're Facebook friends) and I sometimes wonder if 11 years of being alone is some sort of punishment. I also sometimes wonder if repeatedly seeing girls I care about being hurt by guys is some sort of punishment.

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Ok, let's get this over with. Hopefully 3pm will come around fast, then its 2 days off.
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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby KingCub » September 29th, 2013, 6:52 am

Wow! That was nice of him to give me that! I really like it, and can't wait to wear it!
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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby Carl » September 29th, 2013, 1:13 pm

Skype says she's online, Facebook says she's been away for an hour... I know she leaves her computer on, so should be hopeful she's there, or should I just assume she's away?
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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby juhouh » September 29th, 2013, 1:18 pm

I'm glad it's only 3:18 PM
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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby SophieCub » September 29th, 2013, 1:38 pm

I guess I should wash my hair now, since my mum is STILL ASLEEP.
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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby KingCub » September 29th, 2013, 3:00 pm

Its to early. I need more sleep, is that to much to ask for?
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Re: What are you thinking RIGHT NOW?

Postby Carl » September 29th, 2013, 3:11 pm

^ Apparently so.

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Ah, I hope it's a noon day and not a 2pm day. I miss her. :glad:
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