Feeling pretty depressed... Talk to me...?

[Culpeo]

As of late, I feel as if my boyfriend has been losing interest in me and in us.
I don't want him looking at other girls, but I'm so depressed that I don't know what to do!
My mom says to just let whatever happens, happen.
But when we are together, it feels like lately we have nothing to do and we are always bored, either that he always wants to do something I don't want to do. (*hint hint* taking a break from doing that certain thing. ) We never usually fight, but lately hes been in such a weird mood. I dunno if its just because its summer, and he misses his friends, but I really wish he'd stop acting on impulse and think of me for once!
He always wants me to change something feels like. What do I do you guys?


Some advice wolud be nice. Anything please. Coz I really wanna keep my relationship alive.

[axx1000]

I had a friend who was in some troble like this recently.

You have to make you that you make it clear that he is the only guy for you, (not like outright say it but just kinda pass it off)

Since i dont know what either of you are like outside of this forum, i cant give you much off of that ^. but i can say that if he is loseing interest in you you need to fuel your relationship or else you really have no hope.

Im sorry i cant be of more help but i hope this is enough.

[Culpeo]

Well. I just learned that a random girl threw herself at him last night and he told her straight out he had a girlfriend and left the eople he was with because he was upset with that situation. I don't think He's losing interest, but he says he likes when we talk as "friends" but not in a breaking up way. It just makes me nervous. And he sometimes makes me feel inferior. Coz he'll look at other girls and be like "ooh that ass." idk if its joking or not. and if I ask him how pretty I am to him he'll rate me a 7. I just wanna make him happy, and I wanna be called beautiful from him. *sigh*

[FlipMode]

[quote] Coz he'll look at other girls and be like "ooh that ass." idk if its joking or not. [/quote]
That is a guy thing :], he is just jokng around. Furthermore, you should be ok with him liking other girls, that doesen't mean he is going to leave you for them does it? It just means that, he happens to find another girl attractive, or maybe he doesne't and is just pulling your leg ;), either way don't worry about that.

I have heard from a few people IRL in a similiar situation to you, "Oh no, he/she is getting bored and I think is going to leave me" and every time, it never happened. But I will tell you what I told them, try some interesting date ideas, as enjoyable as a trip to the cinema may be, it's pretty cliche and can get stale. Do something fun, I took my girlfriend to play golf (oh yes XD) and it was great fun (neither of us were fans of it). Try something that perhaps merges you interest with his too.

Just quit being paranoid, and don't tell him that you feel this way or he might think you do not trust him.

[axx1000]

does he know your paranoid?

[Culpeo]

Thank you FlipMode Coming from a guy, that makes me feel a lot better And yes, Axx, He does know I'm paranoid. He thinks I don't trust him but I do... Its just the other people I don't trust!

FlipMode: I will definitely think about what you said and run it passed him!!!

[rich198]

i agree with flip on some things. the unusaual date idea go for it try somethig differnt. the him looking at girls thing thats just him being a bloke i do it all the time. but if it is making you paranoid talk to him. one of my girl friends did't like me doing it when i was with her and she spoke to ma about and that was i stopped doing it infront her.so if somethings bothering say something

[Culpeo]

Yeah we talked. He says nother girls don't interest him, but eh. Hes sucha a jerk sometimes. And then he goes into these modes where he acts all depressed and spaces out... I don't even know why. I ask "What are you thinking about?" and he gets all defensive and says "NOTHING GOD. " I get really sad. And just recently, he's started yelling at me and being really commanding. I really should talk to him, but I don't know how to take the right approach. He gets sooo offended sooo fast. It seems like you are all guys, but you are all so helpful thank you.

[FlipMode]

Wait... Flip actually said something that someone found helpful? What on earth is going on?!

Welp glad I/we could help, let us know how it goes and blah blah blah :).

[rich198]

a reason why he may not like being asked "what are you thinking" maybe he dosent like people to know that info. i personally dont like people knowing what im thinking or feeling but hey im very emotionly closed of to others