[quote="Shadowfax"]When people say 'kids ruin your life' -_- Speaking as an actual MOTHER.... No, they do not. It just makes you sound incredibly stupid and selfish as you'd never be prepared to put someone else before yourself! If you don't wanna have kids, fine. But don't say such horrible things when you've never actually experience the AMAZING feeling of being a parent

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Ehhhh...
There are both major benefits
and drawbacks to having kids. Anyone who thinks one way over the other, refusing to acknowledge the other side, is clearly deluding themselves and has their head well within the vicinity of their own rectum.