*spits out her mango smoothie*

whoa, are you serious? you want to date people you don't even know are who they say they are? I mean, for all you know they might not even be guys! or they could be old perverts.
if you got this idea from our MLK weddings, we're just having fun not looking for anything serious. and given your age, I'm really sure your parents won't approve of this notion. mine wouldn't and I'm like 17,

so it's just a bad idea in general. my friend tried dating on myspace not too long ago and the creep she was dating called her house, which caused her mom to find out. her mom disconnected their internet for 1 1/2 years and now closely monitors what she does on it as punishment.
so yeah, I'm in totally agreement with SM there.