How are you feeling?

[FlipMode]

I'm a bit glum today. A friend is passed off with me for not wanting to spend £70 on a single zoo trip and honestly? I'm sorry to admit that I'm rather envious of people living with or so close to their other halves. I'm lucky if I see mine every couple of weeks at the moment and its REALLY getting me down.


Sorry for the rant but I needed to get it off my chest.

But you are at least in a relationship. I'm sick of hearing about people's relationships full stop. It's like "Okay I know you think it's worth sharing that you and your partner are watching Jeremy Kyle but I just don't find it that interesting tbh."
Where have all the strong independent women gone in this World?! Now THAT, that was a rant!

Bit of advice :
Enjoy your time away from him as much as you can, that way he can look forward to seeing you and hearing about all the awesome stuff you have been doing since he last saw you.
I mean I don't know him but that's what I personally like in my relationships. It's incredibly boring when a girl answers "Nothing. Just missing you." when you ask what they are or have been up to. It's cute for a bit but then it's like "Have you no hobbies, interests, career aspirations or new experiences in your life?!"

[Shadowfax]

Super paranoid now....

[Tsuki]

I'm a bit glum today. A friend is passed off with me for not wanting to spend £70 on a single zoo trip and honestly? I'm sorry to admit that I'm rather envious of people living with or so close to their other halves. I'm lucky if I see mine every couple of weeks at the moment and its REALLY getting me down.


Sorry for the rant but I needed to get it off my chest.

But you are at least in a relationship. I'm sick of hearing about people's relationships full stop. It's like "Okay I know you think it's worth sharing that you and your partner are watching Jeremy Kyle but I just don't find it that interesting tbh."
Where have all the strong independent women gone in this World?! Now THAT, that was a rant!

Bit of advice :
Enjoy your time away from him as much as you can, that way he can look forward to seeing you and hearing about all the awesome stuff you have been doing since he last saw you.
I mean I don't know him but that's what I personally like in my relationships. It's incredibly boring when a girl answers "Nothing. Just missing you." when you ask what they are or have been up to. It's cute for a bit but then it's like "Have you no hobbies, interests, career aspirations or new experiences in your life?!"

But when you have Been with him for 3 years and all your friends are moving in with their other halves or getting engaged, then it's difficult not to miss your boyfriend. Yeh
I have stuff to do up here and its not like I'm sitting around doing nothing but moping, but it's hard when you want a hug and can't have one. Guess it's hard to explain if you haven't been in a relationship for that long.

[Carl]

^ I don't think the length of the relationship is the determining factor. My relationship has only been going on for half that and I know exactly what you mean. I think it's more about personality. Some people can cope more easily with this stuff than others.

[Perrys Girlfriend]

Hungry

[Regulus]

Seriously...?

I don't have even the slightest idea what you guys are complaining about. You *have* relationships, and healthy ones at that. Do you have any idea how happy and lucky I would consider myself to be in your situation? Well, do you? I'd give up an arm and a leg to be able to see someone once a month. It's far preferable to seeing someone zero times in twenty years, not being wanted at all.

If you can't tolerate that pain, then you have to wonder how I'm ever able to maintain any degree of sanity. This is especially true given how often I have to hear about other people's relationships on here. Your actions, while seemingly harmless, feed a cycle of self-pity on my end. The more I hear about how bad it is to be away from your other half, the worse I feel for not having another half. And then I just... die.

And then I become this whiny and depressed old fart with repressed mental issues, and I'm even less likely to find any such other half. Thus, the cycle feeds itself in a downward spiral directly to hell.

When I leave MLK, that will be the reason why. I really can't tolerate too much of it. You guys are going to make me an alcoholic. I'm not kidding.

*looks around*

I didn't say anything. Carry on.

[Ninaroja]

Relaxed, though I'm sad I won't see any of them until August

[Perrys Girlfriend]

Relaxed, though I'm sad I won't see any of them until August

[Tsuki]

^ I don't think the length of the relationship is the determining factor. My relationship has only been going on for half that and I know exactly what you mean. I think it's more about personality. Some people can cope more easily with this stuff than others.

Sucks neh?

And Ok...bloody hell I'm sorry I even opened my mouth. In future I'll refrain from sharing my thoughts and feelings on here then.

[Perrys Girlfriend]

Hungry...again.