Help me!

[WildSimba]

Don't let her get too you. People like your mom, have nothing better too do, and they start nit-picking you apart. They do this because they don't want to admit that it's not actually any other persons problem but their own. Your not the reason she smokes. She's saying this because she knows you will get hurt, and this will make her feel less bad about her own emotional problems.

If you were to die right now, believe me, she would feel like crap. Don't do it, just know that she would regret it, and that your not worthless. Your definately a very nice girl, with a great personality.

Remember, I still like you.

[KovusTrueMate]

Try getting her to stop smoking. That may make a difference in her attitude. AND NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS THE LION KING IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO NOT CRAP!!!!

[KopsTheTerminator]

Just leave. Go and stay with your grandmother. If someone says things like that to their own offspring then theyre not fit to raise children and they never have been. Ditch her and make things better for yourself.

Or you could hit her with a few home truths..like, how much SHE has failed in life, and that smoking is HER choice, and that everything that goes wrong in HER life is HER responsibility..

*high paws*

Ignore her. You are who you are, and she can't change that. She can't force you to change yourself. As for the smoking part, she can just stop smoking. It's not YOUR fault that she smokes. She just wants to blame it on you, that's how human mind works. Most humans never want to accept the fact that they caused their own mistakes so they blame it to others. Try helping her with the house and she'll probably will get over it. Or like ML said if she still calls you names, go to your grandmother. Grandparents are always calm and kind. I really don't know what else to say, but good luck with the rest. Oh, and never forget that when others say that you are something, it doesn't mean you are. You know who and what you are better than them.

[thanigraphics]

you should really call out for help at someone you trust. I had same situation when my dad was suicidal, eight years ago. It was hell, but what I did was just walking away, getting dissapeared until they got worried.
But don't stay there, it will get you in bad situation, both physically and psychologically.

[KopsTheTerminator]

Oh yeah, and if you die, trust me, nobody would be happy. MLK would be in a misery, and all your relatives and friends would be heartbroken.

[RayCat]

Ohh, so this is who's been causing you trouble well firstly, she's wrong about everything. You a les? Pfft, you have a boyfriend for pete's sake! A boyfriend!
Just don't do anything silly, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, because there are some people who you don't cause problems too. Us.
And no way is TLK crap. Does she know you go on MLK? Cause maybe she's jealous of the friends you have here! Hey, you could try getting a really good job when you're older, earn loadsa money and buy a nice car, big house, kind huband... at least it'll prove her wrong, mwa ha ha! And then you'll have an epic life in addition! WIN!
We're all here for you, cause we're not just a community, we're family!
"We are one, you and I,
we are like the earth and sky
One family under the sun."
^.^ *huggles*

[Mike]

All the wisdom to lead, all the courage that you need
you will find when you see
we are one

[ScaЯ]

Ouch! I'm really sorry about that, pal. here's a word of advice:

When my family gives me dirty looks and basically says I'm worthless, I give them a dirty look right back that says- "You don't scare me, you crude comments aren't hurting me, and your pathetic excuses for scowls make me sick"-you must show you have no fear.

[SimbasMate]

Thanks everyone. I feel alot more lifted up now. ^^ *Hugs* I feel so much stronger, thanks so much to everyone here that has given me load of good advice. I know I can always have you guys to turn to. ^^

[Cdot]

well i don't really have any advice,but i agree with everybody else.Don't let it get to you, have a good attitude about it and keep you head held high.