by FlipMode » September 10th, 2012, 5:33 pm
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As for my anniversary with Ez.. Im sorry if that annoys you.. But how is that blowing it in peoples face? Stating, once a year that i've been in a relationship with the same person for another year, to me, thats an achievement and something to celebrate. But if it annoys people that much I will remove it.. How dare I mention it once....
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lol so much butthurt. I never said it annoyed me, I just used it to prove the point - straight people who get annoyed by public acts of homosexuality (or feel uncomfortable, as it were) never care when they flaunt their relationship around everywhere. Also, mention it once? I read almost all the posts made on this forum and trust me, you definitely mentioned him a lot more than once. And yeah other people do it too, and usually its fine - it only annoys me because you said you were against gay marriages if they blow them into your face when people LIKE you (though you already said you are not like this) do the same thing in straight relationships. If you say you are not like that, then it does not apply to you and there is no need to get yourself so worked up about it.
And yeah the issue comes up both ways, even straight people are against public displays of affection until they get in a relationship of their own. It is because people like to hate against things they do not have but want - in that case, relationships especially since a natural desire for almost all humans is to be loved.
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I am neither for nor against gay marriage without trying to explain why because people just seem to nit pick parts of my debates and make out like im some hypocritical monster by only READING the BAD parts.[/quote]
You already did explain why, in your first post. But if you did not post BAD parts, then people would not be READING said BAD parts.... And they really were quite bad.
Said BAD parts did make you come across as hypocritical regardless of whether you meant to come across that way or not, so if the boot fits then wear it, otherwise I might suggest thinking about what you say before you say it.
And as Woeler said, that is how a debate works - we are not going to counter the things we AGREE with, only the stuff we DISAGREE with which is why as you say, people are only reading the bad parts, their not "bad" parts... Their just "wrong" parts.
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I don't think I am going to bother voicing my opinion in future. I have different opinions ok.. It's not going to change.
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You are not going to voice your opinion because your opinion is different... That is a bit odd but sure, works for me. Good on you for not changing your opinion though, you aren't supposed to.