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Postby Iri » May 16th, 2014, 10:56 pm

What is wrong with my sister?!
Well, tonight [May 16] there's going to be a little social in my school! And it sounds really fun. c:
So my sister comes into the room and says, "Hey, are you going to the prom-dance-thingy?"
Gee, "prom-dance-thingy" is so descriptive.
Furthermore, I say, "Yeah, I am. Why?"
Then my sister goes, "Ughhhhh..."
So I ask her, "What is up with you? You've been in a sour mood since morning!"
[And believe me, she has been... my sister thinks she can just go and insult someone and get away with it! She has been for the past month. Calling me ugly and untidy and saying my hair is always messy.]
Then she calls me an "embarrassment" to her friends.
So, finally, it's been the final straw. I'm sick of her complaining about me not being as "cool" as her friends. I go into my mother's room and say, "My sister's been calling me an embarrassment."
So then my mother calls my sister in and says to her not to call me an embarrassment.
Pfft, like that'll ever happen.
Anyway, my sister says, "Well, she IS one."
Wow. Just, wow. That's all I can say to that.
She honestly thinks she can go up to someone and insult them, and walk away casually. She doesn't think that hurts?! She doesn't ever stop to think about what she says! When I talk to someone, if I accidentally offend them, I'll apologize and we'll move on. But she deliberately insults me and thinks she can just get away with it!
I'm fed up with her behaviour for the past months. She's FIVE MONTHS OLDER THAN I AM!
FIVE MONTHS!
And yet she thinks she can harass me and insult me.
But anyway...
Whenever I eat an apple or something before bed, she'll say, "Stop chewing so loudly!"
When I simply breathe while reading a book or something, she'll say, "Stop breathing so loudly!"
When will there ever be a time she doesn't complain about my every move?! And when I do "breath too loudly" or "chew too loudly" I'll try to be quieter! I've been doing things for her and trying to make her happy for the past three months!!
I try to quiet down when I do things "too loudly," I offer to give her money for the social, I try to clean up when she complains about my side of the room being so messy, and etc, etc! Whenever she asks [more like demands] me to do something, I do it! When I simply say something to her she'll say "Shut up" or "No one cares, Iri." [Iri's not my real name but I don't want to say my real name.]
When does she ever take three seconds to think about what she says before it slips from her mouth?! She never cares if what she says hurts my feelings or makes me angry. Again, she thinks she can stroll up to someone, insult them, and walk away with a smile.
Jeez, to be honest, she's been doing it for at least two months now. I ought to have gotten used to it.
I don't give a mouse pellet what her stupid friends think [the ones I'm an "embarrassment" to]! Her "friends" are snotty, high-and-mighty fabulous-faces. What am I to them? Just a pile of dirt.
But sometimes the things she says makes me want to cry. And I know I shouldn't. I know I'm too old to cry, but honestly, HONESTLY, I'm sick of the things she says to me! I try to shrug it off and ignore it, but is it really that easy when she says I'm an embarrassment to her friends?! And if I do cry, she'll just think I'm a wimp and she'll fine yet another thing to gossip to her stupid friends about.

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Postby Adofo » May 16th, 2014, 11:19 pm

Okay, I think i can help. Same thing happened with Tacos. YOu need to remind her that you're her little sister and that you love her! No matter what either one of you could ever say or do, you two are sisters and that bond can never be broken. Also, for good measure, throw in a little bit of sobbing while saying she doesn't love you. Get's them every time.
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Postby Iri » May 16th, 2014, 11:24 pm

Pfft, my sister doesn't sympathize me. I don't sympathize her either.
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Postby Adofo » May 16th, 2014, 11:27 pm

Tacos didn't either. In fact she was harder than you. But you know what? She did it! And you know what happened? They stopped fighting, both verbally and physically, and now they love each other like crazy! Look I know it's hard but do you want your relationship with her to evolve into who can give each other the biggest bruises?!
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Postby Iri » May 16th, 2014, 11:34 pm

We don't fight physically, thanks.
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Postby Adofo » May 16th, 2014, 11:35 pm

Yet. Look, if you don't do something soon, you and your sister will spend the rest of your lives avoiding each other. I don't want that to happen.
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Postby Tako » May 17th, 2014, 1:07 am

...I still remember when TM017 wasn't there for me yet but, Iri YOU should listen to his advice. I still have nightmares bout my bro and I fighting but when I scream he comes and hugs me and calms me down. We wouldn't stop. I've been punched, kicked, cut and bruised by him. Ugh. I'm sorry I don't talk my life anymore...... Just listen to what he says please...
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Postby Iri » May 17th, 2014, 1:39 am

... I have reminded her that I'm her sister. I've reminded her that I try anything I can to help keep her happy! But it never works.
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Postby Adofo » May 17th, 2014, 1:49 am

Did you cry? Get really emotional?
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Re: ...

Postby Iri » May 17th, 2014, 1:54 am

No.
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