by FeatheredSeclude » May 15th, 2016, 9:57 am
Agreed all the way, no more bullying.
I got teased a lot for stuttering and having a lazy eye. This is irl though, but it's no different really. Cyber bullying and irl bullying is the same. If you're capable of doing something over the web, you ought to be able to back it up in person.
Some bullies do it for the sake of doing so, where others have harder lives at home, and that is the only way they can vent it out that isn't self-inflicted. At times, I feel I fall into that category, I've got a very hard life at home. I hardly sleep, work near around the clock, but whatever time I can doing some personal things, and sleep when I can.
Parents need to be more understanding and more caring than most are, about how they raise them, and what the kids are around. School systems need to do the same as well.
Kids need to listen more, and not think they know everything, I fall guilty in that more than not. Though on the flip-side the parent still needs to let the kid learn at their own pace and their own way. If the kids want to be a fool through their life, the parent should let them. Parents need to give guidance, and not force guidance. Kids also need to know the difference between forced and given. Parents can fall to not knowing that difference too.
I know my mom has me in knowledge in a number of areas, but even then, I would like to see for myself what whatever it may be is. There are some things you must be the fool to learn, but whenever possible, try to be the wise one.
Good parents want they believe is best for the kid, but they also need to allow the kid enough room to make their choice through their own experience. Everything in life is a choice, out-right blunt choice, or even things we don't even think of as a choice, just little actions, a sarcastic reply, you name it. It's all choice.
Like you, you have your issues, but you don't let them bring you into a bad place, you keep your eyes on your goals and what you want. The choice to push forward, commitment. I admire that honestly.
I personally do a lot care work for other disabled family members, so in that, I think can say I know some parenting, even if it means taking care of an older brother and a younger sister. I'm more or less, the man of the house-hold. So I do a lot. Can also guarantee to have the highest tolerance to a number things.
You're best bet would be to pray for they who bully you, for their life problems be resolved. Love your friends and family, and love your enemies and highest haters the most. That's what I was raised on.
Doesn't mean to be a pushover though, if they do deserve it, knuckle-sandwich time. Wouldn't be my first time doing so, likely will not be my last.
Try to understand their situation.
The most brutal people can often be the most hurt people.
Always put another before yourself.
I dunno what your belief's are, but mine are Messianic Judaism, not what Wikipedia says either, that is completely wrong.
A Jewish person who follows Jesus is what I see myself as, and believe myself to be. Do I stumble go the wrong way a lot, certainly do. Am I proud of these things, never. But I do my best to stay on the right course. Which is definitely harder to do than say.
God bless you, and I pray your issues are solved in Jesus's name.