Real-Life Relationships

[xLilacVixenx]

[quote="SnowyCheetah"]*high five* I just wish I could get up the guts to tell/ask her. [/quote]

Aww, you don't need the guts to tell her if you're truly serious. You can just ask her if you'd like to have lunch with her or just hang out together for a little bit. Go see a movie, go to the library, or maybe even just talk together! I'm pretty sure that once she gets to be around you a little more she'll be more likely to say yes. You also may gain your courage once you see if she's really perfect to you. Take your time with her! I'm not sure about her, but I like taking relationships slow. So take the time to be around with her more; you two might warm up to each other. Then you could realize that you can take your relationship to the next step. ^^

It may be a little uncomfortable to even think of asking your friend out, so I suggest beginning with not actually a date, but some time to hang out together.

It's so sad that I check back on this thread regularely, lol.

[SnowyCheetah]

I think we're comfortable enough with each other (we've hugged before, lol). It's just the first time I've ever done anything like this.

[xLilacVixenx]

[quote="SnowyCheetah"]I think we're comfortable enough with each other (we've hugged before, lol). It's just the first time I've ever done anything like this.[/quote]

Ah, I see. ^^ Well, I'd just follow some of my advice and get to know her a little more. You'll probably have more courage to ask her once you really know you can trust her. (Even though you're close friends; I mean in a relationship way)

[IMightBeHere]

[quote="xLilacVixenx"]
get to know her a little more. You'll probably have more courage to ask her once you really know you can trust her. (Even though you're close friends; I mean in a relationship way) [/quote]
^This is so true.

[TheRoguePrince]

This is all very wise. The process of that manner of transfer is difficult due to the strange feeling of trying to broach the barriers of friendship previously imposed on the relationship. A few years ago I tried as much, but it turns out that some friends just aren't meant to go any further. Now I have at least half a dozen people giving the "you will be happy in time" speach. (This coming after my recent disaster is relating). Well, at least I have smart people to talk to...

[Chumvikingpride]

I hope this will make arrangements
For me, it's not too much top...

[Pixie]

A relationship that I had that lasted for 3 years ended on the 3rd day of 2009, in a tent at 4 in the morning. We were on holiday with his family. It was hell. I went like this-
Me "goodnight" hug
Him "Yeh, goodnight" no hug back.
Me: "Are you ok?"
Him: ".....Yeh."
Me: " I love you..."
Him:........
Me: "Do you love me?"
Him: "See, thats the thing... not anymore."
And then I slapped him. It was horrible to have to face his family the next morning, on the egde of tears the whole time. We're kinda friends now, but we have nothing in common. I am with an amazing man now, who I got with only a month after I broke up with this guy.

[SnowyCheetah]

Wow.

[TheIvanMuse]

That's really harsh,it happened so quickly as well. I'm glad you're with a better man now though,all the best luck to you two.

[axx1000]

Ive never had a girlfriend, but theres a girl im trying to work on solidifying a good relationship now before i ask her out.

in reference to what jaynr said on page 3, i mostly agree, but i believe that teens should date in highschool but not think that this could be "the one", because of how young teens are it is highly (95%) likely that whoever you date in highschool will not turn out to be your husband/wife. because of this i believe that you shouldnt have sex in highschool and should wait until you are both serious about your relationship. I also believe that if your not planning on going to the same college that you should break up, or atleast let them date other people. because your going to meet a ton of people in college you shouldnt deny everyone you see due to a long distance relationship. also let me say that the older you get the harder and harder it will be to find love and you really need to try and find someone before its too late.