Julie Skywalker wrote:Shadowfax wrote:Thanks Julie, my mum's just Pissed with me again. It's my sister's birthday tomorrow and dad wants to take her out for breakfast and invited me and my brother too. So I thought as it's her birthday so as not to let her down, ill tag along. My mum's been really quiet and a bit blunt all evening since she found out i was going, so I'm just not gonna go now. I'll make something up in the morning like the baby didn't sleep well or something. Just annoyed as this is probably going to happen everytime I plan on meeting up with him. It's so stressful and frustrating as I feel so caught in the middle. Hate the atmosphere here when she's like this too. I love her to pieces, but she's making this so difficult.
I agree with Si, but maybe try to find a calm way to explain to her that the minute he messes up it's over? She'll probably understand in time.
Yeh, that's kind of what I did laSt time and thought I'd actually got through to her, but seems like it didn't work going on her behaviour last night. I am giving it a miss this time, I know it's just postponing it till the next time Im in this situation, but I don't want the awkwardness on my sister's birthday.
