Yes, they are hateful. I've talked to several members who say they feel insulted by what has been said in this topic. That's enough.
I'm not saying what people can and can't do with their lives, I'm just saying they have to follow the rules of this website. If they want to live a life of hate, that's fine and dandy - but there's a website that's better suited for them: http://www.wtf.com