What are you whining about RIGHT NOW?!

[Marizzle]

I have to study. Hooray.

[Kiana]

Every time I breath in, the area between my shoulder blades to the left gets this horrible pain. The deeper and longer I breath in, the worse it is, so I'm shallowly and quickly breathing to avoid pain. It does it when I walk, or move. I think I need a Tylenol. Whoopdie-doo plus my friends acting like a moron and wont tell me our email that we both made since i forgot it.

[Regulus]

[quote="Shadowfax"]I said I hate it when non parents stays things like 'kids ruin your life' [...] how the heck would they know, not being a parent themselves? [/quote]

So you expect someone that doesn't want kids to have kids to find out if they want them or not?

[Kiana]

The power had to go out while i was typing that long message? Fantastic, I got to start again.

[Marizzle]

...I hate studying this subject. Truly.

[Carl]

[quote="Regulus"][quote="Shadowfax"]I said I hate it when non parents stays things like 'kids ruin your life' [...] how the heck would they know, not being a parent themselves? [/quote]

So you expect someone that doesn't want kids to have kids to find out if they want them or not? [/quote]
I think she just wants them to use less harsh wording and be a bit less judgmental.

[Si-Amber]

^ Yes, they could say "having kids would ruin MY life" instead of generalising.

[Shadowfax]

[quote="Regulus"][quote="Shadowfax"]I said I hate it when non parents stays things like 'kids ruin your life' [...] how the heck would they know, not being a parent themselves? [/quote]

So you expect someone that doesn't want kids to have kids to find out if they want them or not? [/quote]

Where the heck did I say that?!?! Lmao.

Carl and Si hit the nail right on the head. THAT'S what I clearly meant.

[FlipMode]

[quote="Regulus"][quote="Shadowfax"]I said I hate it when non parents stays things like 'kids ruin your life' [...] how the heck would they know, not being a parent themselves? [/quote]

So you expect someone that doesn't want kids to have kids to find out if they want them or not? [/quote]

In the rest of the post, not just the few lines you quoted, she actually went on to say that if someone doesn't want kids then that's fine but maybe those people could just say "I don't want kids, because of these reasons." Instead of saying "OMG KIDS ARE THE WORST THING EVER WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO RUIN YOUR LIFE LIKE THAT?!"

In case anyone was wandering what my thoughts are; no I don't want kids. For a few reasons. But if I were to get into a relationship with someone who already had kids then I'd be the best father figure I could possibly be. But I certainly don't want any of my own right now, because if I did I'd have to change and move lot of stuff (you can't really be working three jobs, running a company, travelling around the World and running marathons etc and still somehow find time to raise a child properly) and that's why I don't want any right now, I am enjoying the freedom. But to say it would ruin my life? Nah, it would just be a new chapter of my life. And I don't think everyone who has ever had a child has ruined their life, that's for sure. Lol

[SimbasMate]

Damn, I stubbed my toe so hard last night it still hurts.