by Marizzle » March 10th, 2016, 1:20 am
I am utterly tired of watching LGBT characters die on the multiple representations of "pop culture". According to the Guardian, only four LGBT characters have had happy endings in the last 19 years worth of movies/TV shows. That's just...sad.
Just imagine living in a world where you belong to a minority, whose representation on screen is less than 4% of all characters, and having to watch most of that small percentage of characters die over and over. The worst is that most deaths aren't even necessary for a further development of the plot. They're simply done. Now, put yourself in the shoes of all those queer kids, who aren't accepted by anyone and end up turning to "story-telling" and holding on to it. You know why this happens? Because, for them, fiction is better than reality. They use this to seek a representation of who they truly are and to feel validated with it, because, unlike real life, that fiction is telling them: "Hey, it's okay to be you!". But, then, that one character they look up to and that they see themselves in, just dies. It just vanishes and, with it, goes their hope, which was one of the only things they had left. Is this correct? No, not for me.
Unfortunately (in a way), LGBT characters aren't seen as "just characters" yet. They aren't like that beautiful heroine or that mysterious hero, who end up falling in love for their best friend/enemy/whatever of the opposite gender. They simply aren't common enough nor represent something 100% accepted in real life, to be seen as just "another regular character". The way they differ from the rest is that, actually, LGBT characters don't stand alone. With them, stand millions of people who are hoping to see themselves be represented in a proper way and who are tired of seeing themselves be ignored and overlooked. And, believe it or not, it hurts. It hurts to see those characters being "deleted" with cheap or stupid unnecessary deaths, more than once, twice, etc. It hurts to realize how that makes millions of people, myself included, feel like they're not worth validating on television, simply because they want to be themselves. I believe it is time for a change. It is time to stop using LGBT characters as a "marketing" form, as a way to get more views/fans/etc. It is time to start treating these characters like any other characters and finally give them a real plot. A plot where they actually matter.
I know many of you may not understand this or simply may think I'm overreacting, but this actually matters to me...a lot.
I'm sorry for the vent. I don't do this very often, I swear.