I can honestly not think of anything i really, really regret. I don’t regret things of principle. Regret is just a feeling that will gnaw at you from the inside, and you can’t fix or undo things once they’re done.
In regards to your grandmother, Kristian, I completly understand that you regret not visiting her while she was in the hospital. But at the same time it might have been for the best.. My aunt died of cancer, and my sisters and I visited her one time at the hospital. We saw what the cancer had done to her.. And whenever I think of my aunt now, I see her lying in that hospital bed.. It was awful. Of course I’m glad I got to see her before she passed, but at the same time I wish I never had, so that I could remember her the way she was before she got sick.
You’ll get to keep the happy memories of a healthy, normal grandmother.
