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Re: Friend Advise..

Postby KopsTheTerminator » September 9th, 2011, 8:52 am

If she's like that, forget about her. She doesn't deserve any attention from you. You don't have to change your personality for ANYONE. Change will come naturally, and you'll like it eventually. But you must never force yourself to change. I had a best friend who's like that now, sadly. >.>
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Re: Friend Advise..

Postby Miharuka » September 9th, 2011, 11:31 am

^ Agreed.
If she acts to you like that, she doesn't deserve to be your friend anymore.
And if you make that clear, you have a good change she will act nice all of sudden again, but don't fall for that.
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Re: Friend Advise..

Postby Baya » September 9th, 2011, 5:35 pm

I had a friend like that. Stopped talking to her over summer and everything pretty much fixed itself. I didn't like her too much. My solution is probably not you want to hear, but sometimes its better to just let go.
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Re: Friend Advise..

Postby SophieCub » September 9th, 2011, 8:33 pm

Yeah.. thanks everyone! Your all totally right! I want to ditch her but I cant. She hangs around with my friends and I like my friends. I don't want to lose them too. I dont have many options.
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Re: Friend Advise..

Postby Miharuka » September 9th, 2011, 8:46 pm

Well..you can try to talk about it with your friends before she does. I'm pretty sure they will understand.
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Re: Friend Advise..

Postby Azdgari » September 9th, 2011, 9:35 pm

Errrm... how has nobody suggested you talk to her about it? If she's really one of your best friends, I think it's worth trying to save it. Who knows, maybe there's something going on you don't know about. Tell her how you feel and see what she says.

All I know is, problems between people are rarely fixed by not talking about them.
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Re: Friend Advise..

Postby SophieCub » September 9th, 2011, 10:17 pm

^ I tryed that.. didn't work. She is being too crazy and she doesn't understand. She says shes growing up and that I have to too. Thats not growing up.. thats being mean and immature.
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Re: Friend Advise..

Postby KopsTheTerminator » September 10th, 2011, 9:12 am

You mean she's turning into a 5-year old. If she was really growing up, she wouldn't act like that. Ugh, I hate people who are like that... Just let her be, karma will eventually get her.
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Re: Friend Advise..

Postby SophieCub » September 10th, 2011, 9:59 am

^ Yeah she is acting like a five year old! Your right, karma will get her back! ^^
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