Real-Life Relationships

[SnowyCheetah]

[quote="axx1000"]theres a girl im trying to work on solidifying a good relationship now before i ask her out.[/quote]

That's more or less the stage I'm in right now.

[Pixie]

[quote="TheIvanMuse"]That's really harsh,it happened so quickly as well. I'm glad you're with a better man now though,all the best luck to you two.[/quote]
Thanks, and yes, he is a better man. I knew that relationship was coming to an end, but he didn't time it too well lol

[TheIvanMuse]

He surely didn't... But all is well now,so that's great. Which is not what I could say in my current situation.

[TheRoguePrince]

[quote="TheIvanMuse"]He surely didn't... But all is well now,so that's great. Which is not what I could say in my current situation. [/quote]

You could say that, I can't really think of a much worse time to end that sort of thing.

[SnowyCheetah]

[quote="TheRoguePrince"][quote="TheIvanMuse"]He surely didn't... But all is well now,so that's great. Which is not what I could say in my current situation. [/quote]

You could say that, I can't really think of a much worse time to end that sort of thing.[/quote]

Well... he could have waited until a wedding... but it was still nasty of him.

[TheRoguePrince]

Well, it if it wasn't working for him he wouldn't have asked her to marry him...

[zorayda]

So, guys... if there is someone I really really like (a LOT), and he's somewhat interested, but is skittish when it comes to commitment, how do I go about getting his trust and possibly having a full relationship? Any tips for moi? :3

[Azdgari]

Hmmm... sounds like exactly what I've been going through! Except I'm on the other side. Best advice I can give is to give him space early on in the relationship. One of the things that scares a lot of boys about commitment is the girl being clingy, always wanting to be with him. Be sure he has his space when he starts out. Of course, if wants to be around you more, that's wonderful as well; all the better! And the normal advice, be yourself (or it'll never work)... be considerate... he's probably just as nervous as you are! If you both like eachother, the trust and the relationship will grow with time. Hope it helps; that's my experience and I'm still going strong! ^^

[zorayda]

Thank you :3 I'll keep that in mind. I hope it works *crosses fingers*

[YFWE]

I guess I should update this from my post on the first page of the thread, since I've now been in a relationship for nearly seven months.

le yay!