Was Scar Loved?
In spite of what he is (or was, perhaps, considering the nature of his demise), I will start right off by declaring myself to be a resolute Scar-fan. No, I don't approve of what he did to his brother and his nephew; yes, I think he was 'that bad'. For all that, however, he remains an interesting and sympathy-inspiring character to me. One of the reasons I feel this way, I believe, is something he said in the Broadway version of 'The Lion King'. It went like this: "Nobody loved me -- there's the rub. Not even as a cub!"
When I read the script and saw that line, it solidified my curious sense of empathy for him as a character, and I couldn't help but wonder-- was Scar truly unloved all his life? If so, it would certainly explain an awful lot. However, it seems odd to me that so-called kind and just parents like Ahadi and Uru, who raised an excellent father-figure like Mufasa, would willingly and knowingly withhold love from their younger son.
Thus, I have probed both the story "A Tale of Two Brothers" and "The Lion King" to set out to find an answer to the burning question: Was Scar Loved?
* His Name *
As most hardcore LK fans know, Scar's original name in "A Tale of Two Brothers" was 'Taka', which is Swahili for 'dirt' or 'want'. Not a very kind thing to name your newborn son, is it? Especially since their oldest got the name 'Mufasa', which-- roughly translated-- means 'king'.
Theory Number One would be that Ahadi and Uru were simply not aware of what the names meant-- but I find that to be highly unlikely, seeing as the meanings are a tad too coincidental (Mufasa = king; Taka = dirt).
Theory Number Two would be that they did not intend such malice as is perceived by readers when they named their youngest cub. After all, Scar's fur is an unusually dark shade of brown for a lion; maybe 'dirt' was a reference to this. Also, he appears to be quite thin and weak in form. He himself states in the movie that, "--when it comes to brute strength... I'm afraid I'm at the shallow end of the gene pool." His parents may have named him this to show that he was 'wanting' in that area, in hopes that he would grow stronger someday.
These are all plausable causes for the unflattering title he was given, but, Theory Number Three simply assumes that it was intended as many believe it was-- with a sense of disappointment and disregard. If so, then Scar (or, rather, Taka) could undoubtably list this as one of the reasons why he was sure he was never loved.
* "Ahadi nuzzled his son." *
And yet, when Taka recieved the scar that would brand him for the rest of his life, Ahadi actually nuzzled his unconcious son while Rafiki ran to get healing plants for the wound. And, even after Taka tells him how he got his scar (by trying to humiliate Mufasa and Ahadi) he does not react in anger, but with sound instructions for Taka to 'let go of the anger that rules [him]'.
So, perhaps Ahadi was a good, but oblivious parent who understood Mufasa better than he did his younger son. After all, had he known Scar well, he might have said something a little more sympathetic, such as, "I'm glad you're alright" instead of immediately interrogating him for the cause of his actions and then offering a bit of noncommital advice. Scar doesn't seem the type to appreciate things like that.
* Mufasa's Feelings About Scar *
"Taka doesn't like to do much of anything. He and my father don't get along".
(When asked if he likes Taka) "He is my younger brother. I look after him."
So we see that, no, Mufasa does not especially like Taka, because, unlike him, Taka is apparently unmotivated and on bad terms with their father. This would perhaps indicate that Ahadi's feelings toward his youngest son have in fact influenced Mufasa's; or maybe Mufasa just dislikes Taka because of his own personal experiences with him. At any rate, he feels it is his duty to protect him-- but does that equal 'love' in the sense that Scar longed for? Certainly not.
"Watch how you speak to me."
By the time he is a teenager, Mufasa seems to know he has an advantage over his younger brother, and wields it with some authority. This could simply be because he is physically stronger and well-aware of his position as heir to the throne; but it could also be due to the already-stated fact that Taka and his father do not get along. Mufasa may be thinking that Ahadi will rush to defend him from his younger and less-liked little brother... a thought which would need some reinforcement from Ahadi beforehand. Say, when they were growing up.
Also, it seems as though he and Taka have no 'brotherly relationship' to speak of at this point, which I can't say surprises me much.
"Don't turn your back on me, Scar!"
Ah, and now, having reached adulthood and kingship, Mufasa makes his demands known. True, Scar was being a jerk at this point, but really, Mufasa-- he was just going to leave.
Turning your back on a king, however-- at least in England's history-- is (or, at least, was) indeed a no-no. You came into the throne room, groveled until Henry VIII or whomever told you it was okay to get up, and then walked out backwards. I can imagine this rule leading to some hilarity if a poor sap happened to back into, say, a wall or a heavily armed gaurd; but the point is, if Disney was using this as inspiration, then Scar was showing Mufasa a severe and purposeful lack of respect.
I feel that, in this case, Disney was probably inspired by the 'no back-turning' rule, and used it to show just how disdainful Scar was of Mufasa's kingship. In that case, Mufasa would have a right to be somewhat angry, especially after Scar already missed Simba's coronation.
* Scar's Personality *
And, we must all admit, as much as we Scar-fans love him, Scar is-- how shall I put this-- not a very loveable guy. Sure, he's intelligent, witty, and even occassionally funny; but that doesn't make up for his faults, which include jealousy, sociopathy, and taking a sadistic pleasure in killing both his brother and (so he thought) his nephew.
In "A Tale of Two Brothers", Scar also showed many signs that, besides being jealous and disdainful, he was unmotivated, surly, and quick to harm someone who bruised his ego (i.e. Rafiki). Already, then, he was "ruled by anger" and hatred, seemingly under the impression that the entire world was against him.
By the time we reach "The Madness of King Scar", Scar is tormented by his deep-seated (and, unfortunately, justified) fear that his subjects despise him. He even goes so far as to beg others to tell him that he is "adored", and tries to force himself on an understandably confused and frightened Nala.
Taking such evidence as we have seen into objective consideration, it seems that Scar was a naturally narcissistic individual whose idea of "love" was for others to completly adore him, holding him above all others in esteem. He wanted to be "respected, saluted, and seen for the wonder" he was. Thus, being born second-best to his older brother was a huge blow to him. He apparently felt no need to try to excell, because "Daddy" (and, presumably, "Mommy" as well) already had a favorite-- Mufasa. He also had no friends and no real ability to make any-- he apparently had to 'beg' just to join the hyenas group (as one of the three hyenas in the book stated, "Who begged who [to join]?").
So, here we have a lonely, bitter, jealous, and narcissistic soul who desires to be loved above all others. This tells us who Scar was, but does it tell us whether he was truly loved or not?
Yes, and no....
* My Conclusion *
I believe that, in a sense, yes: Scar was loved. By his immediate family only, though, and not in the way he wanted and certainly not in the way that he needed. Yet, I also don't think he had the capacity to love others properly, either, which might have earned him love and respect in turn. He was far too caught up in himself and his desires, becoming much too self-centered to dole out sincere affection for another. Thus, he resorted to lies, treachery, murder, and tyranny to gain the "love" he so craved-- and he was miserable when he realized too little too late that all his efforts were in vain.
He had the kingdom, but he did not have love. And in the end, it was the latter that he wanted the most.