My Lion King Forum

I've never been so worried like this... Yesterday in the afternoon at 5, my boyfriend had an bike accident and he woke up lost... I texted him before I didn't know, he replied "Are you my cousin?" I was laughing ( I didn't knowwwwwwwwww okk?) then I realized he was serious... He fell off his bike and hit his head on a tree extremely hard... I feel like I caused this... Like few days before, his father passed away and he's depressed. I tried my hardest to cheer him up but nothing... On that night, I cried and cried my eyes out, I kept praying for him to make him feel happy... Like about an hour ago, I met up with him and he said, "I don't know when my dad will be back, I asked my mom but she doesn't want to tell me..." Inside I asked myself, "Was that me?... I asked for this to happen?" I guess God heard my call... But, he seems happier but he's confused about some things, he hears ringing in his ears, blurry vision, and a little dizzy... Which is the same symptoms to a concussion. I still feel like it was me... But, at least he doesn't remember about his dad.... I'm just like so worried, I always ask him if he's ok, or questions to see if he remember things. :'(

One of my friends had a horse riding accident that left her with memory loss. She still doesn't remember it happening, but her memories prior to that moment came back.
Don't blame yourself Tako. If God decided this was meant to happen, then it happened. Everything in life has a reason for happening, whether we like it or not. The thing to remember is that we have no control over it.
You need to stop hurting yourself by laying the blame on your shoulders.

I've never dealt with friends or family with issues like, so I don't exactly what to say.
I do agree with lionobsession. The Lord has his reasons, no one really know his reasons, but having faith in what he does is the best way to go. There are things we don't like that take place, and things we like. We don't have control over it, but we do have the control to see the best or worst in what lays infront of us. I'd look for the best.

Aww, Tako. I'm sure he'll be okay. Like Timestones and Lionobsession said, God doesn't do anything wrong. He is in tomorrow. Even though I'm no Christian my parents are and I grew up doing Church activities. Do I still participate? Hell naw. Do I still believe? That's for me to know and for you to find out. But still, God knows what will happen. Nothing bad happens without good being right behind it. <3

I like what lionobsession said, I learned at my church, putting life on your shoulders causes depression and is totally not necessary, he will decide what's right, I am a Christian, I have experienced it before, he will decide what's right, no matter what. I'll be praying for you. Everything has a reason.

Yeah I agree with everyone, I'm so sorry this happened, I believe it will turn out ok, over time, things like this take time Tako! I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Liz sweetheart! **huggs comfortingly** Remember your BF still loves you, and you love him, that will help you get through stuff like this! Its not youre fault, never was, accidents happen to all of us! I've had my share to know!**huggs comforts** I'm here for you as are All of us, you're not alone in this!

Wow...I'm sorry for what happened to your boyfriend; it obviously must be really tough to go through. I hope that in time he will regain his memory and if you need anything or if you want to talk, feel free to PM me. I haven't been in this type of situation before, so I'm not going to lie and say that I completlely understand what you must be going through, but I do know that whatever happens, you'll be strong enough to try and look at the positive side of things (which might seem impossible, but I assure you that it isn't). I will pray so that your boyfriend recovers from his accident and please tell me if I can help in any way possible. Good luck Tako, and I'm sorry for what happened.