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Posted: May 16th, 2014, 10:56 pmWhat is wrong with my sister?!
Well, tonight [May 16] there's going to be a little social in my school! And it sounds really fun. c:
So my sister comes into the room and says, "Hey, are you going to the prom-dance-thingy?"
Gee, "prom-dance-thingy" is so descriptive.
Furthermore, I say, "Yeah, I am. Why?"
Then my sister goes, "Ughhhhh..."
So I ask her, "What is up with you? You've been in a sour mood since morning!"
[And believe me, she has been... my sister thinks she can just go and insult someone and get away with it! She has been for the past month. Calling me ugly and untidy and saying my hair is always messy.]
Then she calls me an "embarrassment" to her friends.
So, finally, it's been the final straw. I'm sick of her complaining about me not being as "cool" as her friends. I go into my mother's room and say, "My sister's been calling me an embarrassment."
So then my mother calls my sister in and says to her not to call me an embarrassment.
Pfft, like that'll ever happen.
Anyway, my sister says, "Well, she IS one."
Wow. Just, wow. That's all I can say to that.
She honestly thinks she can go up to someone and insult them, and walk away casually. She doesn't think that hurts?! She doesn't ever stop to think about what she says! When I talk to someone, if I accidentally offend them, I'll apologize and we'll move on. But she deliberately insults me and thinks she can just get away with it!
I'm fed up with her behaviour for the past months. She's FIVE MONTHS OLDER THAN I AM!
FIVE MONTHS!
And yet she thinks she can harass me and insult me.
But anyway...
Whenever I eat an apple or something before bed, she'll say, "Stop chewing so loudly!"
When I simply breathe while reading a book or something, she'll say, "Stop breathing so loudly!"
When will there ever be a time she doesn't complain about my every move?! And when I do "breath too loudly" or "chew too loudly" I'll try to be quieter! I've been doing things for her and trying to make her happy for the past three months!!
I try to quiet down when I do things "too loudly," I offer to give her money for the social, I try to clean up when she complains about my side of the room being so messy, and etc, etc! Whenever she asks [more like demands] me to do something, I do it! When I simply say something to her she'll say "Shut up" or "No one cares, Iri." [Iri's not my real name but I don't want to say my real name.]
When does she ever take three seconds to think about what she says before it slips from her mouth?! She never cares if what she says hurts my feelings or makes me angry. Again, she thinks she can stroll up to someone, insult them, and walk away with a smile.
Jeez, to be honest, she's been doing it for at least two months now. I ought to have gotten used to it.
I don't give a mouse pellet what her stupid friends think [the ones I'm an "embarrassment" to]! Her "friends" are snotty, high-and-mighty fabulous-faces. What am I to them? Just a pile of dirt.
But sometimes the things she says makes me want to cry. And I know I shouldn't. I know I'm too old to cry, but honestly, HONESTLY, I'm sick of the things she says to me! I try to shrug it off and ignore it, but is it really that easy when she says I'm an embarrassment to her friends?! And if I do cry, she'll just think I'm a wimp and she'll fine yet another thing to gossip to her stupid friends about.
~Iri
Well, tonight [May 16] there's going to be a little social in my school! And it sounds really fun. c:
So my sister comes into the room and says, "Hey, are you going to the prom-dance-thingy?"
Gee, "prom-dance-thingy" is so descriptive.
Furthermore, I say, "Yeah, I am. Why?"
Then my sister goes, "Ughhhhh..."
So I ask her, "What is up with you? You've been in a sour mood since morning!"
[And believe me, she has been... my sister thinks she can just go and insult someone and get away with it! She has been for the past month. Calling me ugly and untidy and saying my hair is always messy.]
Then she calls me an "embarrassment" to her friends.
So, finally, it's been the final straw. I'm sick of her complaining about me not being as "cool" as her friends. I go into my mother's room and say, "My sister's been calling me an embarrassment."
So then my mother calls my sister in and says to her not to call me an embarrassment.
Pfft, like that'll ever happen.
Anyway, my sister says, "Well, she IS one."
Wow. Just, wow. That's all I can say to that.
She honestly thinks she can go up to someone and insult them, and walk away casually. She doesn't think that hurts?! She doesn't ever stop to think about what she says! When I talk to someone, if I accidentally offend them, I'll apologize and we'll move on. But she deliberately insults me and thinks she can just get away with it!
I'm fed up with her behaviour for the past months. She's FIVE MONTHS OLDER THAN I AM!
FIVE MONTHS!
And yet she thinks she can harass me and insult me.
But anyway...
Whenever I eat an apple or something before bed, she'll say, "Stop chewing so loudly!"
When I simply breathe while reading a book or something, she'll say, "Stop breathing so loudly!"
When will there ever be a time she doesn't complain about my every move?! And when I do "breath too loudly" or "chew too loudly" I'll try to be quieter! I've been doing things for her and trying to make her happy for the past three months!!
I try to quiet down when I do things "too loudly," I offer to give her money for the social, I try to clean up when she complains about my side of the room being so messy, and etc, etc! Whenever she asks [more like demands] me to do something, I do it! When I simply say something to her she'll say "Shut up" or "No one cares, Iri." [Iri's not my real name but I don't want to say my real name.]
When does she ever take three seconds to think about what she says before it slips from her mouth?! She never cares if what she says hurts my feelings or makes me angry. Again, she thinks she can stroll up to someone, insult them, and walk away with a smile.
Jeez, to be honest, she's been doing it for at least two months now. I ought to have gotten used to it.
I don't give a mouse pellet what her stupid friends think [the ones I'm an "embarrassment" to]! Her "friends" are snotty, high-and-mighty fabulous-faces. What am I to them? Just a pile of dirt.
But sometimes the things she says makes me want to cry. And I know I shouldn't. I know I'm too old to cry, but honestly, HONESTLY, I'm sick of the things she says to me! I try to shrug it off and ignore it, but is it really that easy when she says I'm an embarrassment to her friends?! And if I do cry, she'll just think I'm a wimp and she'll fine yet another thing to gossip to her stupid friends about.
~Iri