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Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 1:30 pm
by KingKivuli
Ive come to realize that recently I have been bad person on this forum in the way I act and treat some people. I just want to say sorry to everyone I hurt or even scared a little. I didnt not intended to do that. I see now that my actions were wrong and premature, im not proud of them. I let let problems in my personal life effect me on here and the way I treated some of you. I tried to act in the best interests of the forum instead I made things worse. Whatever happens from here on in, I am truely sorry and I hope maybe one day you can forgive what I have done so we can move on

Re: Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 1:32 pm
by LadyAnette
I forgive you...I never really thought you were scary or mean. I found you quite nice actually. I understand that other things could be happening in your life if you do do something like that. Lol ALL staff are intimidating! (Except NM and TS) :P No offence, dude. Means you have POWAH! XD

Re: Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 1:35 pm
by SinChei
yeah me too and i understand you its ok man

Re: Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 1:36 pm
by SnowyCheetah
I won't lie, you're really nice to talk to sometimes. But as mod/co-admin you really overstepped your bounds. I'm glad you've realized that finally. Maybe now things'll be a little less nasty around here :)

Re: Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 1:41 pm
by LadyAnette
Haha. And no hard feelings, buddy. Everybody makes mistakes. ;) (In fact I mistake you and Zeke SOOO bad :P)

Re: Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 1:56 pm
by KingKivuli
im not one to really explain why I act but a friend of mine thinks it will do me good.

my whole life ive grown up not every really having friends, which lead to me having to deal with all lifes issues alone. It also lead me to being a bully for a few years and then getting bullied for 7 years. since i had no friends and i didnt tell my family i had to deal with it alone. its only in this past year ive started to learn and understand friendship. yet my personal life isnt easy. the big factor is my parents splitting up and my dad just being a total ass. Hes been alot worse in these past few weeks

thats the basic story im not a fan of talking about it but thats my issue.

and thanks to you guys so far it means lot

Re: Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 2:00 pm
by SnowyCheetah
We're behind u KK ;) no worries here!

Re: Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 2:02 pm
by LadyAnette
Hmm what I would do is take a time to be alone in your room and think about all these avents. Which are the worst? Why? How does that effect you? How can you be optimistic about it? Will you be fine?

Or you could just do one of these simples steps I found in an AG book:

Think about an event you DON'T want to happen. Then think of 'then what would happen?' to yourself. then answer it.

Example:

I wish I had an XBox

(Then what would happen?)

I guess I would play all day?

(Then what would happen?)

Mom would probably kick me out.

(Then what would happen?)

I guess I couldn't go on the XBox

You'll probably figure out a solution sometime. Hope thise helped and that you get through it! :(

Re: Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 5:50 pm
by Mike
Well done man, it's just like I said, you can fix anything with a little humility and regular applications of Time. Acknowlege your mistakes, ask forgiveness, and work to fix it. This is the right first step. <3

Re: Apology

PostPosted: January 1st, 2010, 6:48 pm
by MusicLion101
well done mate, must have taken some balls to type that up lol