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I is back now :)

PostPosted: July 21st, 2010, 7:58 pm
by FlipMode
Yeah I didn't really leave but, I was very busy with something and had time to make like one post every now and then (yes I MAKE time for this site, even when busy) but i'll be back now properly, or at least alot more active :].

That's not the only reason I made this thread though, otherwise I would have just started posting again. I also wanted to explain where I was, what happened and what not, if anyone was wandering. (I like to sometimes tell people AFTER I have dealt with personal stuff, I don't know why :/). So here that goes...

About 3 weeks ago, my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer ( which is around the time I became less active) and 2 weeks after that ( a week ago today) she had the operation to remove that (which is a pretty big operation if one may say so) and spent the past week recovering in a hospital (which is where I have been for a good portion of the time, visiting her.)

Now, she was looking better almost everytime I saw her, but this hospital was a very depressing place to go to (there were one or two old people in there, literally waiting to foe) and that plus the fact that I was extremely busy with other stuff made me quite stressed. So BIG apolagies for anyone I may have snapped at on MSN, here or whatever (Especially Ivan)

Also, I realise how difficult looking after a house on your own actually is. 'Twas just me and my girlfriend looking after the whole house (That means, cooking, shopping, cleaning, washing, ironing etc etc.. All the things I took for granted before). When I wasn't doing that, I was driving to and from the hospital (about 20 mins - 40 mins traffic dependant) and my girlfriend's house (About the same, in the opposite direction though), Ontop of that I had my job of course, and college coursework to do.
So yeah that's why I literally had no time to get onto MLK except a tiny bit at night before sleep ( so like 10 mins at most).

Anyways, now my mum is back at home, i will still be busy of course as she can't do much on her own still but I do have alot more time to come and visit you guys <3. Thanks for reading, didn't think it would be SO long. But it feels good to be back and back to my old cheerful self :evil:, so i will see you around

Re: I is back now :)

PostPosted: July 22nd, 2010, 2:29 am
by Panda-chan
You have nothing to apologize for. I really hope your mom recovers quickly :/ and thanks for letting us know why you were away.

Re: I is back now :)

PostPosted: July 22nd, 2010, 4:31 am
by Taka
Glad to see you will be more active!
Im sorry for your mother but happy that she;s okay, I hope she gets healed soon ^^

Re: I is back now :)

PostPosted: July 22nd, 2010, 10:00 am
by PrincessKiara
Glad to see you being more active again, and I’m really sorry about your mother. It must have been very difficult for you coping while she was in the hospital. :( Hopefully she’ll heal quickly now.

Re: I is back now :)

PostPosted: July 22nd, 2010, 8:49 pm
by Azdgari
Words can't describe how happy I am your mother is recovering quickly. That you were able to catch the cancer and remove it is simply incredible. I'm sorry you had to go through it but really happy it's turned out OK, Flip.

Glad you're back. =]