I is back now :)
Posted: July 21st, 2010, 7:58 pmYeah I didn't really leave but, I was very busy with something and had time to make like one post every now and then (yes I MAKE time for this site, even when busy) but i'll be back now properly, or at least alot more active :].
That's not the only reason I made this thread though, otherwise I would have just started posting again. I also wanted to explain where I was, what happened and what not, if anyone was wandering. (I like to sometimes tell people AFTER I have dealt with personal stuff, I don't know why :/). So here that goes...
About 3 weeks ago, my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer ( which is around the time I became less active) and 2 weeks after that ( a week ago today) she had the operation to remove that (which is a pretty big operation if one may say so) and spent the past week recovering in a hospital (which is where I have been for a good portion of the time, visiting her.)
Now, she was looking better almost everytime I saw her, but this hospital was a very depressing place to go to (there were one or two old people in there, literally waiting to foe) and that plus the fact that I was extremely busy with other stuff made me quite stressed. So BIG apolagies for anyone I may have snapped at on MSN, here or whatever (Especially Ivan)
Also, I realise how difficult looking after a house on your own actually is. 'Twas just me and my girlfriend looking after the whole house (That means, cooking, shopping, cleaning, washing, ironing etc etc.. All the things I took for granted before). When I wasn't doing that, I was driving to and from the hospital (about 20 mins - 40 mins traffic dependant) and my girlfriend's house (About the same, in the opposite direction though), Ontop of that I had my job of course, and college coursework to do.
So yeah that's why I literally had no time to get onto MLK except a tiny bit at night before sleep ( so like 10 mins at most).
Anyways, now my mum is back at home, i will still be busy of course as she can't do much on her own still but I do have alot more time to come and visit you guys <3. Thanks for reading, didn't think it would be SO long. But it feels good to be back and back to my old cheerful self :evil:, so i will see you around
That's not the only reason I made this thread though, otherwise I would have just started posting again. I also wanted to explain where I was, what happened and what not, if anyone was wandering. (I like to sometimes tell people AFTER I have dealt with personal stuff, I don't know why :/). So here that goes...
About 3 weeks ago, my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer ( which is around the time I became less active) and 2 weeks after that ( a week ago today) she had the operation to remove that (which is a pretty big operation if one may say so) and spent the past week recovering in a hospital (which is where I have been for a good portion of the time, visiting her.)
Now, she was looking better almost everytime I saw her, but this hospital was a very depressing place to go to (there were one or two old people in there, literally waiting to foe) and that plus the fact that I was extremely busy with other stuff made me quite stressed. So BIG apolagies for anyone I may have snapped at on MSN, here or whatever (Especially Ivan)
Also, I realise how difficult looking after a house on your own actually is. 'Twas just me and my girlfriend looking after the whole house (That means, cooking, shopping, cleaning, washing, ironing etc etc.. All the things I took for granted before). When I wasn't doing that, I was driving to and from the hospital (about 20 mins - 40 mins traffic dependant) and my girlfriend's house (About the same, in the opposite direction though), Ontop of that I had my job of course, and college coursework to do.
So yeah that's why I literally had no time to get onto MLK except a tiny bit at night before sleep ( so like 10 mins at most).
Anyways, now my mum is back at home, i will still be busy of course as she can't do much on her own still but I do have alot more time to come and visit you guys <3. Thanks for reading, didn't think it would be SO long. But it feels good to be back and back to my old cheerful self :evil:, so i will see you around
and thanks for letting us know why you were away.
Hopefully she’ll heal quickly now.