I've edited this post so much xD
I would say that if you leave over a misunderstanding and choose to take drama over a simple PM to clarify with the staff, then that's your problem, not the staff's. The staff put in an obnoxious amount of hours for our sake so that this forum exists. Does anyone honestly have the right to be angry when they make one call you don't agree with? They're doing their best, and they're doing it for you.
WS, I'm not saying the above is you, in fact I'll happily say that you're a wonderful member who is incredibly civil and well spoken, and frankly if everybody conducted themselves like you when they disagreed with things, well, none of those topics would've ever happened.
I agree--address the legality and the fanfictions (although as a frequent fanfic reader I've never seen a problem with that, but I understand it was before my time). Your language idea was a great one--what exactly are the rules for board language? Where is the line drawn? Is it different in Fanfics?
I agree there are a few things to be revised, but we don't need rules for every possibility or little thing that pops up every few months--isn't that what the mods are for?