Right, to all the ladies here on MLK (in fact heck all the guys too)
Never let anybody do anything to your body you are not comfortable with. I say this based on an incident that happened last night.
So as you may or may not know I am at University now and am smack-bang in the middle of Fresher's week events. Last night my flat mates and I went to a UV Rave at the Student's union. It was good fun and we'd had drinks and stuff, and then this guy dances up. I'm just doing my thing so I sort of dance with him cause he seemed to be having fun and so was I, but anyway. He keeps coming closer and closer and then he ends up kissing me. Fair enough, I've done that before and saw no harm in it - but that wasn't the issue.
This guy (who hadn't even told me his name or anything) puts his hands up the back of my shirt and starts fiddling around with my bra strap. Obviously this was NOT ok so I took his hands and moved them. And then I'm aware that he is pushing us towards the door of the club. I try to tell him that I need to stay with my flat mates (there must have been 500+ people at this thing) but he still pushes. At this point I have had enough and just force my way back through the crowd to where they are.
He follows, and when I try to dance with my new friends he literally grabs my hips and starts pulling me backwards into his crotch and jamming his hands places that you don't really want a complete stranger to be touching. I kept moving his hands away (couldn't move physically away cause the place was too packed but I did try to put at least a few inches between my butt and him) Eventually he gets lost in the crowd and I'm all relieved.
An hour and a half later and he's back (no idea how he managed to find me again) but I act like I don't see him/don't know who he is all while he's constantly pawing at my arms and stuff trying to get me to grind on him again. Thankfully he got bored quickly and ended up leaving.
But yeah, regardless of how much you have or hadn't had to drink never let anyone take advantage of you and never be afraid to say no - your body your rules after all