I'm really hoping the staff will offer their opinions on this issue.
In the past, if someone has done something wrong that they can fix, I typically tell them about it (trying to be polite about it) so they can fix it before a staff member has to step in and issue official reprimands or warnings and stuff. Most members appreciate it, since I've saved them a visit from the staff (and on the side, saved the staff some time by helping resolve the issue before it requires their attention). But recently, two members very strongly resented my comments and advice, even though it was polite. One member had a sig element which stretched the pages of the forum horizontally (Im pretty sure the sig rules have provisions for that) and I told him that his sig was stretching the page, and even offered to look up the sig rules for him and tell him what size was acceptable. He took care of his sig, but made no secret that he deeply resented my input and would rather have had me tell a staff member if I had a beef with him.
I also told another member, whose post broke the USR, that their post had stuff in it that shouldn't be there, and that they should take care of it. In that case, I probably saved them a warning, but they resented my presence to an enormous extent and made no secret of it.
So my question is, should I (and others like me, who occasionally inform other members about things they need to fix) just stop telling people, and tell the staff instead? If we can take care of the issue without involving the staff and using valuable time from the staff's day, shouldn't we try?
Also, is it my fault that these members got upset at me, and do I need to just stop trying to help out, or are they being unreasonable?
Please, please offer your opinions, MLK staff! As well as everyone else, of course.